Joomla Bible Study

I'm trying to smooth out the layout of the list view at our archive. I have three questions:

1.) How do I make the streaming player thinner? I won't want it to take up as much room as it is.
2.) How do I fix the column spacing on entries that don't have the mp3? The player doesn't show up on those, and the column end up out-of-line with the others.
3.) How do I make things show up on multiple rows, like in the demo at the front page of Joomla Oregon or at mynbc's site?

I figured out number 3, by the way. In case anyone else was having trouble: If you want both the date and the title to show up in the first column in two rows, then set both of them to column 1, and use the Order parameter to decide which one goes first.